Just got home from the surgeon's office and I'm so upset I can hardly breathe.

A short synopsis:

We were told that he would be doing the surgery next week but found out today that he's out of town next week.

We wanted to have a little time to look at calendar together and see what a good date would be for us. I called the surgeon's office back 15 minutes later to go ahead and schedule the surgery and was told that they would call me back around the end of next week once the insurance was approved and everything was set to let me know the date...which would be another 2 or 3 weeks later. I asked if we could possibly know when it might be or what week or anything and was told, No, they don't really work like that.

The surgeon also told us that since she was sick and has been sick it's not a big deal for her to be sick for a while longer, does that sound right to anyone else?

I'm so upset, I can't think of any nice words right now...everything that comes to my mind is ugly.